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If you've ever wondered about the tantalising world of whips and paddles, you're in for a treat. From understanding the basics and choosing your weapon, to exploring safe words and building trust, our beginner's guide will help you dive into the world of BDSM pleasure accessories.

Is it time to add a dash of spice to your love life? Curious about exploring exhibitionism, impact play, cuckolding or something else entirely, we’re here to congratulate you on embracing your desires, and help navigate the thrilling waters of discovering and exploring your kinks.

Curious about nipple clamps and how to enjoy them? Trying nipple clamps for the first time doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, many people love the way they delight the senses and amplify sensation… with a pinch of excitement.

Curious about adding a gimp mask to your sexual exploits? In this blog post, we're exploring the benefits of wearing a gimp mask during sex—a practice that embraces the realms of pleasure, fantasy, and shared exploration.

They’re unapologetically bold and undeniably sexy – and while they’ve been popular in BDSM and queer culture circles for decades, body harnesses are having a real MOMENT in mainstream fashion, and are becoming more popular among those curious about kink and exploring bondage play and fantasy.

Curious about temperature play and how you can explore it to spice up your sex life? Temperature play is a wonderful way to awaken your senses, and – while it’s a mode of erotic exploration that falls within BDSM – it’s highly accessible to newbies...

Curious taking a golden shower, or engaging in watersports with your partner? A subset of Wet and Messy (WAM) fetishism, urolagnia or urophilia refers to arousal by the thought, sight, taste or feel of urine, and it’s not as uncommon as you might think.

For couples exploring bondage, rope is one of the most versatile and cost-effective means of restraint available – and it can also be one of the most beautiful. Shibari is a great example of rope play and restraint that can be intricate and erotic, and an increasing number of Kiwis are beginning to explore it.

  National Handcuff Day is coming up in the good old U-S-of-A; celebrating the date a patent was granted to George A. Carney for his revolutionary new style of handcuff way back in 1912. We love a good set of cuffs,...